So we are STILL waiting to hear a decision from the birth mom who is due on April 30. Friday I called and spoke to her attorney's secretary who told me the birth mom has not made a decision yet. She asked for my phone number and said she'd see what she could find out and call me back.
A few hours later the ATTORNEY called me back and said "I hear you have some good news for me?" and I was like "WHAT?!" and he repeated it and is said "are you telling me YOU have GOOD news for me????" I was FREAKING OUT at this point. So I say "wait a minute, I'm called earlier to find out if the birth mom due on April 30 has made a decision." He says "Oh. I had you confused with someone else." I wanted to PUKE!
He ended up telling me she has a list of 10-12 potential couples but he didn't have that list at hand and could not tell me if we are on it. He also said she if having a difficult time making a decision at all.
What a FRUSTRATING phone call.
THINK before you call someone, KNOW who you are talking to. It's a person's future you are messing with here.
ugh
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4 comments:
That is frustrating. BB at Our Adoption Journey
http://miraculouslymyown.blogspot.com/
just had an adoption come through at the last minute. The birth mom actually had the baby and chose them 2 days after. So don't worry that the due date is fastly approaching, she could be waiting til the last minute.
PS GOOD LUCK!
Oh my goodness, what a frustrating call. I'd be so irritated and irate by the end of it. How can he not know whether you guys are on the list of 10-12 the birth mom is choosing from - isn't that part of the process?! Stressful!
he didn't have the list "handy" :P
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